These Lies Are Ruining Your Marriage Ep 109

These Lies Are Ruining Your Marriage Ep 109 | Marriage Coach
 

Most likely, you currently, or have in the past, believed a version of each of the lies I talk about this week in AwakenYou in your marriage.

In the magical event that you have never fallen for any of these lies, take some time to pay attention to the words you hear others speak about their marriage or the influences you expose yourself to:

  • in that series you’re currently wrapped up in
  • in the ads that run through your subconscious mind while watching those mini-series
  • in the movies you watch
  • in the social posts you follow

Perfectionism. 

A constant state of love.

No disagreements. 

Marriages are meant to terminate because lasting love is impossible.

This week I’ll share a few of these lies, seven as a starting point, and help you start questioning the validity of these lies, and then I’ll help you consider something else you might prefer to believe.

I will also share why believing these lies kills your marriage and ultimately has you getting the opposite of what you desire. 

Listen to AwakenYou in your marriage, Episode 109, These Lies Are Ruining Your Marriage, and decide whether you want to continue to believe them or if you’re ready for something different.

What lie do you want to dispel?

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I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

The Benefits of Humility In Your Marriage Ep 108

The Benefits of Humility In Your Marriage Ep 108 | Marriage Coach
 

Pride, selfishness and ego are love’s enemy, but this one thing can overcome all three.

Humility is the one thing that can overcome the enemy of love (ego and the pride accompanying it).

If you want to experience love again in your marriage, you must learn to embrace humility.

Humility can’t be embraced when you don’t have a solid inner foundation of self-trust and self-confidence.

This week I am going to help you:

  • Learn how to start practicing small acts of humility in a way that doesn’t feel humiliating

  • Understand what humility in action looks like

  • Realize why humility can be so difficult

  • See how practicing humility will powerfully influence positive change in your marriage

Listen to AwakenYou in your marriage, Episode 108, The Benefits of Practicing Humility in Your Marriage, and start leading your marriage to the love revival you desire.

Episode referred to: Ep 97: Why You Want To Forgive

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

Helping Guys Create Successful Marriages with Nicole Ellis Ep 107

Helping Guys Create Successful Marriages with Nicole Ellis Ep 107 | Marriage Coach

This week I am sharing a super powerful conversation with Nicole Ellis, a Certified Success Life Coach for Dads. Nicole does magical things with men to help them live up to the role they dream of having in their marriage and in their family without succumbing to the fears that have them pushing their dream away by avoiding and withdrawing.

Nicole Ellis empowers men who are feeling stuck at home to create a life for themselves and their families that they can’t wait to get home to!  Nicole has spent over 25 years working as a full-time homemaker to create a happy and successful life with her husband and their six children.  She has a BS degree from Utah State University. She has served by teaching and mentoring parents, teachers, and leaders in her community on how to effectively teach, discipline, and connect with children through each stage of development.

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Podcast:  PERSPECTIVE with Nicole Ellis …..Coming Soon! 

 

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriages into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what you even want in your marriage because face it; it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together, we create a path toward the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and completely powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

How to fall back in love with your partner, with Christine Bongiovanni

How to fall back in love with your partner, with Christine Bongiovanni | Marriage Coach

Life Coach Kaia Hunter interviews me about all things relationships, enjoy!

In this episode, I chat with Love and Relationship Coach, Christine Bongiovanni.

We chat about what to do if you’re feeling unloved by your partner, and how to find happiness and validation within yourself. And then, how to improve your romantic relationship so that you can reconnect with your partner and feel love again.

Find her here:

Christine Bongiovanni Coaching: https://christinebongiovanni.com

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Abundant Love Free Mini-Course: https://christinebongiovanni.com/relationship-abundance-mini-course/

I am a marriage coach who helps women and couples go from feeling powerless to change how they feel about their marriage to feeling powerful and taking ownership of their feelings. My process isn’t about changing your partner; it’s about discovering who you are so that you can AwakenYou in your marriage, and through this process, you will begin to find that your partner will change as well! Schedule your free mini-coaching session today to discover how coaching can help you take your next steps forward toward what you want in your marriage.

Create Your Victory Boundary Plan Ep 106

Are you carrying all the load?

What do you do when it seems as though all the household management tasks fall in your lap?

I hear so many women talk about this relational dynamic which is killing their enthusiasm for life and, surprisingly, their relationship.

For most of them, it was a decision early on in their relationship, a decision they were on board with.

Until they weren’t. 

If this sounds a bit like something you’re struggling with in your relationship, think back to how this dynamic started and how it got to where it is today.

How have you co-created this dynamic?  

Listen, I was right there with you, so I am not knocking how you got here, but I want to help you get out of this messy place you’re in.

That is what this week’s episode of AwakenYou in your marriage is all about:

  • I will help you see what is happening in this dynamic or any dynamic where you’re feeling resentment, anger or frustration with your spouse
  • Then I share how to put together a plan to address this situation without blaming them for the problem AND without putting all of the blame on yourself
  • Learning how to work together to create a plan that is a win-win for you while bringing the two of you closer together

Listen to Create Your Victory Boundary Plan and start getting what you want in your marriage. 

Episodes referenced:
Ep 75: How To Create Healthy Boundaries In Your Marriage

Book referenced in episode:
Boundary Boss by Terri Cole

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and completely powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, then I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

Start Creating The Marriage You Crave Ep 105

Start Creating The Marriage You Crave Ep 105 | Marriage Coach

The only thing you need to create the marriage you crave is the desire to do so.

Once you desire something different, you can start working on a plan with strategies to achieve success.

That’s what I help you do in this week’s episode of AwakenYou in your marriage:

  • First, we define the problems you are struggling with
  • Second, we decide which problem you want to work on solving
  • Third, we come up with a plan to start solving that problem

Listen to Creating The Marriage You Crave and get your action plan started today.  

Then BE BOLD and share your desire over your Valentine’s Dinner together maybe even listen to the episode together so that you can co-create a plan together!

 

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & emotionless marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by looking within to understand how you got here, and from this place, we work together to figure out where you want to go. Then we do the work of making that your reality!

If you feel sad and completely powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, then I’d love to chat with you about what is going on and what’s possible for you and your future. It’s never too late to re-create your best life. Schedule a free mini-solution session today, and let’s talk about how to get started.