Try explaining something you don’t understand; you can’t do it without laughing or wanting to cry.
Let me explain.
You’re in a funk, but you’re not sure why; I mean, life is going really well right now; you should be partying like it’s 1999!
You can’t explain it to your spouse, so you withdraw, which could be understood through their lenses as you’re mad at them for doing something wrong.
Nothing gets resolved, and you continue to distance yourselves to avoid feeling awful.
This is not good communication, but it’s what happens in the lives of many couples.
What do you do about this problem? Learning to communicate well is a start, but you need to start practicing something else before communicating well.
First, I want to tell you to relax. This is going to feel so much better than trying to explain the unexplainable to your spouse!
This crucial step starts with you, like most things we do here in AwakenYou in your marriage, so tune into this week’s episode, which is all about the One Crucial Element To Good Marital Communication.
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If you feel sad and completely powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, then I’d love to chat with you about what is going on and what’s possible for you and your future. It’s never too late to re-create your best life. Schedule a free mini-session today, and let’s talk about how to get started.