Sex Over The Marriage Timeline Ep 121

Sex Over The Marriage Timeline | Marriage Coach
 

You could totally believe that being married to the same person over time will lead to boredom in the bedroom. 

How empowering does THAT belief feel?

Here are some words we could exchange for unempowered: blocked, limited, prevented, stopped, constrained…

It’s NO WONDER so many couples are unhappy with their sex life! 

Of course, there is always more to it than this societal belief that boredom in the bedroom is inevitable with a long-lasting partner, but can we start with understanding how much this belief is creating this reality?!?

You will NEVER create a fun, exciting, passionate sex life with your partner from a place of feeling blocked, limited, stopped, constrained, and unempowered. Never. 

Yes, I have a lot to say about this topic, and if you want to hear just a slice of my rampage, then check out this week’s AwakenYou in your marriage episode. Episode 121: Sex Over The Timeline Of Your Marriage might be what you need to hear to start questioning your belief and creating your own view about what is normal regarding sex in your marriage.

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I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

Leaving Your Marriage Without Leaving Is Self-Betrayal Ep 120

Leaving Your Marriage Without Leaving Is Self Betrayal | Marriage Coach
 

So many of you have left your marriage, given up on the dream you once believed was possible with the one you’re with, but you haven’t moved on.

Leaving your marriage might not mean you’ve moved toward filing for a divorce.

It might even look like everything is well and good to the outside world, while inside, you are secretly slowly dying.

I’ve been there. 

I thought all of the things to justify that this sort of distant marriage was acceptable, yet deep in my soul, I knew something better was possible.

Something better was possible for me, and something better is possible for you.

If you’ve left your marriage without leaving, this week’s AwakenYou in your marriage episode is a must-listen! Episode 120: Leaving Your Marriage Without Leaving Your Marriage will open your eyes to your self-abandonment, help you see how this might be a familiar cycle, and give you some hope to change the cycle.

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I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

How To Build The Closeness You Desire Ep 119

How To Build The Closeness You Desire | Marriage Coach
 

Getting close to someone, and I’m not just talking about skin-to-skin, but really letting someone know us, see into us, requires trust.

Trust and a sense of feeling psychologically safe and secure is a process that needs to be established over time.

As you share your wants, desires, and dreams and your partner hears you out without arguing, dismissing or trying to change you, you feel safe to open up even more.

This process leads you to knowing your partner and letting your partner know you.

It’s what builds the closeness you crave.

In this week’s episode of AwakenYou in your marriage, Episode 119: How To Create The Closeness You Desire: Building Safety & Security, I will teach you:

  • Where your sense of safety and security come from
  • How to build your sense of safety and security
  • Why it’s so important to provide safety and security for others 

All so you can start opening up to more of what you want in your marriage!

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I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

Should You Stay Or Go & Why You Need To Decide Ep 118

Should You Stay Or Go & Why You Need To Decide | Marriage Coach
 

 If you’ve ever wondered if you married the wrong person, then you’re considering an option other than the one you’re with.

If you’ve secretly wondered if life would be better if you left in the heat of conflict, then the option to give up is playing in the background.

If, on a lonely Friday evening, while your spouse is still at work, you’ve played with the idea of being free to do as you please, you are internally divided.

First, I want to share that it is not uncommon for you to question your choice when things appear to go awry in your marriage; the problem comes with what you do when that question pops into your brain.

Second, this isn’t fair to either of you.

When you don’t make it a point to be all in or take steps to go, your lack of commitment will keep you from digging into the work of fighting for what you want.

In this week’s episode of AwakenYou in your marriage, Episode 118: Should You Stay Or Go & Why You Want To Decide, I will help you see how deciding will feel so much better than sitting on the fence. 

Listen right here.

 

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started.