As I was reflecting on a social gathering we had here at the house a few weeks back, it struck me as interesting when I thought about how uncomfortable people get when we openly discuss things that we are struggling with in our lives.
It’s not that I don’t understand why, I mean, I was the queen of covering up my poop 🤣🤣🤣 ! OK, let’s pause a moment because I am completely laughing out loud at myself. The previous sentence was not in my original writing of this post and that sentence was real truth my friends! I just was envisioning my dog Zeta after she does her business, she is adamant about covering up her 💩, sort of like I was 🤣.
It’s just that through all of the self work I have done, through all of the coaching I have gotten, I am very comfortable talking about my 💩 and I’m going to tell you why. If we just keep covering it all up it becomes a big pile of messiness but the messiness isn’t outside of us, like it is for Zeta, it’s all piling up inside of us creating one big toxic mess. Getting it out, talking with a coach, seeing it on paper, hearing it out loud allows us to process and start re-wiring our inner, self taught program, allowing us to upgrade into a daily next best version.
I wonder if you can figure out why we’re so uncomfortable talking about our problems.
What I came up with is that we’re uncomfortable with ourselves. We are ashamed, embarrassed, disappointed, afraid of other people’s judgement, what they might say.
We attempt to control what other people think about us by doing things like:
- pretend everything is amazing
- complain and blame others
- gossip about others, directing attention to someone else’s “dysfunction”
I now realize how healthy it is to share our struggles and here is why I believe this:
- talking out loud about our struggles allows us to heal but also brings about healing in others, as they hear our story they can start to feel some relief, some hope and possibly be able to initiate positive steps towards feeling better themselves
- it helps you be a true human, not pretending to be perfect or someone you’re not
- it allows people to see the true you and connect on a much deeper level
People are going to either like you or not, you might as well find your truest connections by being your truest self.
We are human.
We all struggle.
Stop denying the struggle and start addressing it. Stop trying to control other people’s opinion of you by being someone you’re not.
It feels so amazing!
It’s what I do on a daily basis, not just for me but for all of my beautiful clients. There is nothing more rewarding than watching people work on their problems and start living the life they were meant to live.
With a big proud smile on their face 😃
I am learning how to be me and helping you let go of your created you so you, and others, can embrace Your True You!
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