You could totally believe that being married to the same person over time will lead to boredom in the bedroom. 

How empowering does THAT belief feel?

Here are some words we could exchange for unempowered: blocked, limited, prevented, stopped, constrained…

It’s NO WONDER so many couples are unhappy with their sex life! 

Of course, there is always more to it than this societal belief that boredom in the bedroom is inevitable with a long-lasting partner, but can we start with understanding how much this belief is creating this reality?!?

You will NEVER create a fun, exciting, passionate sex life with your partner from a place of feeling blocked, limited, stopped, constrained, and unempowered. Never. 

Yes, I have a lot to say about this topic, and if you want to hear just a slice of my rampage, then check out this week’s AwakenYou in your marriage episode. Episode 121: Sex Over The Timeline Of Your Marriage might be what you need to hear to start questioning your belief and creating your own view about what is normal regarding sex in your marriage.

Tap on the image above or right here to listen.


I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

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