Getting close to someone, and I’m not just talking about skin-to-skin, but really letting someone know us, see into us, requires trust.

Trust and a sense of feeling psychologically safe and secure is a process that needs to be established over time.

As you share your wants, desires, and dreams and your partner hears you out without arguing, dismissing or trying to change you, you feel safe to open up even more.

This process leads you to knowing your partner and letting your partner know you.

It’s what builds the closeness you crave.

In this week’s episode of AwakenYou in your marriage, Episode 119: How To Create The Closeness You Desire: Building Safety & Security, I will teach you:

  • Where your sense of safety and security come from
  • How to build your sense of safety and security
  • Why it’s so important to provide safety and security for others 

All so you can start opening up to more of what you want in your marriage!

Tap on the image above or right here to listen.


I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

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