I think it’s too bad that society sets us up to believe that if we had the “right person,” the feeling of falling in love would never go away.
Society has set us all up to think that we’re all doing it wrong and that if we find our true soulmate, we’ll walk off happily ever after.
What if you wouldn’t ever find your true love until you figured out how to find true love right where you are?
That’s what we do in AwakenYou; we do the messy work of breaking down our fears, our sense of not having enough, denying the truth, choosing to remain unaware, and addressing shame.
This week on the podcast, I talk about our shame shields and how we use them to block connection with our partner.
When we do the brave work of setting down our shield, that is when we find the connection that starts the process of creating true love.
Communication is pretty much non-existent.
Expressions of endearment? Well, you’ve pretty much forgotten what those look like (though you crave them like a cheeseburger and fries after a weeklong fast.)
Your marriage feels as emotionless as your relationship with your college roommate; as a matter of fact, you and your roomie seemed to share more emotions that what you and your spouse exchange.
Sex feels like a transaction, something you check off your list.
Do any of these feel familiar?
In this recap of October’s Marriage Masterclass, I help you:
- Start getting what you want and feel safe asking for it
- Approach conversations in a way that has you feeling connected
- Share how you feel in a way that will have them turning towards you
- Discover a new sort of intimacy in the bedroom
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I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & emotionless marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by looking within to understand how you got here, and from this place, we work together to figure out where you want to go. Then we do the work of making that your reality!
If you feel sad and completely powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, then I’d love to chat with you about what is going on and what’s possible for you and your future. It’s never too late to re-create your best life. Schedule a free mini-session today, and let’s talk about how to get started.