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When Other People's Opinions Keep Us Stuck

Letting People’s Opinions Keep Us Stuck

December 1, 2020

Marriage Infidelity with Andrea Giles

Marital Infidelity With Andrea Giles

November 24, 2020

When We Think We Have No One

November 17, 2020

Cognitive Dissonance

Cognitive Dissonance

November 10, 2020

The Quick Fix Myth

November 3, 2020

post traumatic growth with Monaye Marcia

Post Traumatic Growth With Monaye Marcia

October 27, 2020

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Some people will teach you to show love to your pa

Some people will teach you to show love to your partner the way they want to be shown love.⁣
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I'm all for doing that, but when we are only doing it because that's what we think they want, obligation will never come across as love.⁣
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"What about how I want to show love?" is a question I often get, and what about it?⁣
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When we do anything from a place of love and do it because we WANT to do it, we don't have to be concerned about how the other receives it.⁣
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Whenever we do something from a place of love, it is good, no matter how someone else receives it.⁣
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What is happening in someone else is their story to sort through, and it's not our job to judge it.⁣
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How they receive our love doesn't mean anything about us, and that's something we learn in my AwakenYou program.⁣
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What have you done from a place of love that you have stopped doing? Why?⁣
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This week, we will be playing around with the idea

This week, we will be playing around with the idea of how other people's opinions are interfering with you doing what you want to do in your love relationship.⁣
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Too often, we are all up in other people's heads, making up stories about what is going on in their minds. ⁣
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It gets us in all sorts of trouble.⁣
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It also keeps us from showing up as the romantic partner we long to be.⁣
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Follow along with me this week as we explore this topic.⁣
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What story are you telling yourself about your spouse that keeps you from showing them affection?⁣
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The truth is, we all do it, let's AwakenYou so you can show up the way you long to show up, leaving them and their thoughts for them to work on.⁣
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When this quote came out of my brain my head did a

When this quote came out of my brain my head did a bit of a tailspin.⁣
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It says so much!⁣
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Someone else is never the keeper of a love relationship that makes you full of grateful joyous love. You are.⁣
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The more work you do to create that relationship the bigger and fuller that love feels.⁣
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If you think a magical love relationship should just happen you are wrong, you have to want it bad enough to create it. You have to want it bad enough that you scrape your shins a few times over.⁣
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I'm not sure how anyone would want to live in a relationship that is just so so after I've put myself into the field and endured the fight to create something more. ⁣
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Everyone's relationship is their own but if you want yours to ripple out from your heart out into the world then you are the one I want to work with. I want you to come join me and together we will AwakenYou!⁣
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How much time do you spend thinking versus doing?⁣
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I have learned to keep an eye on this because I LOVE coming up with amazing ideas, but the thinking of these ideas doesn't do me any good if I can't implement any of them. ⁣
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Having great ideas but not knowing what to do with them is something I love helping my clients with. I can help them see when this idea creation is actually just a form of avoiding taking action.⁣
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In our love relationships, we have all sorts of ideas of what we want it to look like, but when it comes to implementation, well, 🥱 it's the same old story, just a different day.⁣
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I have a secret that I am shouting from the rooftops: "child-like love is available in your relationship - yes, the one you are in right now AND in the one you are waiting to meet!" ⁣
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Now that sort of result is worth setting goals and taking uncomfortable steps to attain. Join those who are already making it happen; lets AwakenYou!⁣
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If there is anything that I can tell you that I wa

If there is anything that I can tell you that I wanted you to hold close to your heart and move quickly forward with it is this.⁣
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I lived too long without knowing this, without knowing what loving myself even looked like, I was too busy destroying myself to understand. ⁣
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You were created with love and it does not matter what you have or have not done. All that matters is what you do right now. Until the day I leave this earth I will do my best to spread this knowledge as deep and wide as I can.⁣
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In AwakenYou we focus on you in your love relationship, even if you're not currently in a relationship. Sometimes that's the best place to be, in the preparation of a beautiful relationship with yourself so that you aren't looking for someone to fulfill that for you. ⁣
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That's God's job and He doesn't do it wrong.⁣ Scroll through to see what I'm grateful for.
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Today I published my THIRD expert interview with @

Today I published my THIRD expert interview with @andrea__giles who works with women stuck in the after-effects of marital infidelity.⁣
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Andrea coaches from experience and has a passion for helping women discover the peace she's found and it's what drives her coaching. ⁣
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If you've ever experienced marital infidelity or know someone who has, you understand the painful emotions that are part of the aftermath. Working through these emotions, finding the courage to take control, and move on is difficult but not when you have someone on your side. ⁣
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Someone on your side hears you, understands you, and helps you move forward instead of staying stuck in the "if only's".⁣
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Check out this week's blog, link in bio, and watch/listen to my interview and learn how coaching can help you move forward from infidelity in your love relationship.⁣
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This morning, as we approach the holidays and the

This morning, as we approach the holidays and the end of the year, I was reflecting on my relationship and the 2020 impossible goal that I set last December.⁣
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Yes, December.⁣
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December is the month I plan for the following year, I work on that plan all month long, not just one short day as we ring in a new year.⁣
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I create two impossible goals, 🤫 don't tell my coach since she only recommends one. I set one for my personal life and one for my business.⁣
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This year my impossible goal was to look back and give my self of a year ago a flying high-five for nailing the creation of her dream love relationship. ⁣
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This morning I couldn't help but smile around the progress I have made, how much more love I feel on a daily basis, and how that pride spills out into the world knowing I am helping so many other people achieve the same in their relationships.⁣
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Thinking that fun, heart-stopping connection is simply a story of the past is just a lie you have come to believe and I want to help dispel that belief. I want to help you Awaken(YourTrue)You which is someone who fully enjoys life, including having a relationship that you can't wait to go home to!⁣
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One of my favorite quotes from internationally ren

One of my favorite quotes from internationally renowned author and speaker Wayne Dyer is "You cannot be lonely if you like the person you are alone with."⁣⁣
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When we think we are alone we are disconnected from ourselves and we are disconnected from our Creator.⁣⁣
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You were created with magnificent love, you are loved with magnificent love, your work is to connect to that source of love so you can understand and utilize it.⁣⁣
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Once you are able to plug into your love power source you begin the journey of learning how to love yourself. ⁣⁣
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After a long life of being disconnected with yourself that journey can seem complicated. That's why I love helping my clients create their future self because then they have a goal to keep their sights on when they want to quit.⁣⁣
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This coming winter season is a time to rest, replenish and prepare to grow to new levels of accomplishment. This is the best season to join my AwakenYou coaching program because we will nourish your soul awakening you into your most plentiful season of all.⁣⁣
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