A roll of the eye, an uncomfortable laugh or a deep sigh might be all more subtle flavors of control, yet they are still ways to diminish what someone else says or thinks.

This week, I am taking a look at a topic that might hit a bit close to home for some of us (take a listen to see how close to my home it actually hit) – Ep 137: The Losing Battle of Power & Control in Marriage.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• What’s behind the battle: Ever wonder why we fight for control and power in our relationships? I’ll uncover the hidden drivers behind this age-old struggle.
• Ways we attempt to control: From subtle tactics to overt actions, I’ll explore the various strategies we employ to assert control, shedding light on behaviors you might not even realize you are engaging in.
• The path to change: It’s not about changing your partner; it’s about transforming yourself. I’ll share practical steps to relinquish control, fostering a more intimate, connected relationship.

Relationships can be tricky, and control and power battles are more common than we think. But guess what? Change is possible, and it starts with self-awareness and self-compassion.

Listen now on the AwakenYou in Your Marriage podcast to discover how to break free from these patterns and nurture a love that’s built on trust, understanding, and authenticity. 

Remember, change takes time, and it’s okay to stumble along the way. Be patient with yourself and your partner as you embark on this transformative journey. 

Ready to break free from the losing battle of control? Tune in and let’s awaken your relationship together! 

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

 

It’s not uncommon for us to be a bit unsure of who we are as an individual.

Remember Julia Roberts in Runaway Bride?

We grow up being told who we are and wonder who we are to question those opinions.

Based on the surrounding culture, we become who we think we need to be to be good employees, moms, dads, friends, and family members.

We may even attract our spouse by being the person we thought we needed to be to keep them interested in us. 

“I’ll take my eggs the way you do!”

Eventually, in our marriages, this way of being can get in the way of an intimate connection with your spouse.

This week on the AwakenYou in Your Marriage podcast, I’m diving deep into the essence of self-discovery and its profound impact on our most cherished relationships.

In a world where self-awareness is the compass guiding us toward growth, we’re here to explore:

🌱 The Journey Within: Discover how your sense of self, formed since the moment you entered this world, shapes every facet of your life.

💞 Relationship Dynamics: Uncover the untold story of how your self-concept influences your marriage, affecting not just you but your partner too.

🤔 Navigating Change: Embrace the transformative power of self-discovery, and learn how evolving into your authentic self can rejuvenate your relationship.

💪 Building Your Best Self: Gain practical insights and strategies for self-compassion, self-acceptance, and harnessing change for a stronger, happier marriage.

Life is a journey of self-discovery, and I’m here to help you navigate it with confidence and love. Tune in now to Ep 136: Who Are You? The Process of Becoming Yourself & How it Affects Your Marriage and embark on this transformative quest with me. Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button and share with those who crave self-awareness and thriving relationships!

Ready to embrace the incredible power of becoming your best self? Let’s do this together!

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

 

A marriage caught in a tangled web 🕸️ of outside influences is not a marriage where open, honest intimacy can grow.

In this week’s episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I am diving into the world of Triangulation: Going Outside of the Marriage.

Join me as we unravel this complex dynamic and explore its impact on our marriages. From understanding what triangulation is to identifying its destructive patterns, I’ll equip you with the insights and tools to navigate this familiar challenge.

I’ll help you discover:

• What exactly is triangulation, and how does it affect your relationship?
• The positive uses of triangulation for growth and healing.
• The destructive side of triangulation and how to avoid it.
• Tips to identify and stop triangulation in its tracks.

Triangulation can either strengthen or strain your connection with your spouse – depending on how you approach it.

Tune in to learn how to keep your relationship thriving and free from external entanglements.

Need to untangle the knots? Then listen now to Ep 135: Triangulation: Going Outside of the Marriage.

Don’t forget to hit the subscribe button and share with a friend who might be struggling with outside influences in their relationship, OR has someone brought you in between them and their partner? This is the perfect episode to help you set boundaries to keep your relationship based on bonding instead of gossip.

Let’s build stronger, more resilient marriages, one episode at a time.

Episodes Referenced:
Ep 90: Differentiation: Could Your Differences Be Your Marriage Assets?
Ep 130: Conflict to Clarity: Identifying Your Deepest Fears 

 

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started. 

 

Do you ever feel like you and your partner speak two different languages? I see it happen all of the time while in a session listening to couples talk, but rarely do the individuals themselves see the discrepancy because they are making pure sense in their minds.

This week on AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I am digging into a different type of language, love languages.

Understanding the world of love languages will help revolutionize how you connect with your spouse.

Here is what you will learn in Ep 134: Love Languages: Making Them Work for You:

• What Gary Chapman categorizes as the 5 Love Languages and what each one means so you can better understand the concepts and start seeing them in yourself and your spouse.
• How to discover what your top love languages are, as well as your spouse’s
• Practices to help make your love languages work for you in your marriage

I’ll show you how to incorporate what you learn into your journey of self-discovery and growth, then move on to making them work in your marriage.

If you are frustrated because your spouse isn’t meeting your love language, I’ll teach you how to look within and discover ways to fulfill your needs first. 

Share your love language discoveries and experiences with me after listening to the episode, and together, let’s grow!

Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button and share with a friend who has talked about their love language and is disgruntled because their spouse is ignoring them!

Take the Love Languages Quiz right here!

I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.

If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started.