The first step to healing your marriage is probably not the first thing that would come to mind when you’re unhappy in your marriage.
The first place most people turn when unhappy in their marriage is their spouse.
They tell their spouse they’re unhappy; usually, the spouse is not surprised because they’re not happy either, and they need to see a counselor.
Not an entirely bad idea, but usually, that means that the problem they are trying to solve is within their spouse.
This will NOT end well.
Trying to get your spouse to change is a solution that will never last; that’s why in AwakenYou, we start with ourselves.
This is the easiest way to start because we get to work on ourselves without trying to drag our spouses along.
It’s the most effective way to start because your spouse will see the change and growth you are experiencing, and it will impact how they interact with you…in a way that will get you precisely what you’ve been wanting.
This week in AwakenYou in your marriage, Episode 115: The First Phase To Turning Your Marriage Around, I share how you can begin to feel better in your marriage without dragging your spouse into a therapist’s office.
I am a marriage coach helping women and couples turn their loveless & disconnected marriage into something better than they ever imagined possible. My process starts by helping you figure out what it is you even want in your marriage because face it, it’s been a while since you’ve dreamed of what your future could look like. Once you’ve started to open up to what is possible together we create a path towards the marriage you crave.
If you feel sad and powerless about your marriage’s state of affairs, I’d love to chat with you about how you’re feeling and what moving towards something different could look like. Book your Courageous Love Conversation Inquiry Call today, and let’s talk about how to get started.
